The Older I Get …
July 21st, 2008 . by CaryBack in the day (younger readers will refer to this era as “pre-history”) when Marines were Marines and Sailors were afraid to talk to them, yes, back when I served, there was a competition of sorts between the branches of the services. That is to say, each one was sure that the others were mere poseurs, wimps, wanna-bes and wash-outs. I served on several posts where there were multiple services (Presidio of Monterey, for one) and it was quite plain to the eye that the differences between the services were deeply ingrained and would never change. (although, given the choice, I would avail myself of the dining facilities of the Navy and the E-clubs of the Air Force as often as possible)
Something seems to have changed over the years. Looking back through several years of memories, it seems that more and more often whenever I come across a veteran, the difference in branch of service just got less and less important. Not less important to the individual, but less important than the fact that the individual had served this country.
I used to only want to talk to Marine vets. Oh, how many personal histories did I dismiss as “not important” because the speaker was not a Marine? I have learned through trial and trouble, time and temerity, that all service histories, taken together, are what makes up the fabric of the Armed Forces as a whole.
Now, I see every veteran as a brother or sister in arms, a comrade with whom I would share my last dollar or fire my last shot to protect. Marine, Army, Navy, Air Force, Coast Guard, or any of the reserve components, have my undying respect and gratitude for their service.
Some might see this as a sign of weakness; other will recognize growth and maturity when they read this. I prefer to think of it as finally realizing that without any of the services, it would be pretty darned tough to have gotten as far as we did as a country.
Although I give my Navy friends grief, they know that I respect them for their service. The same goes for others I have contact with. I may kid and rib, but underneath it all is the basic love for the fellow fighter, the bond that is forged in service for a common goal. We all served this country, in a capacity we thought we were best suited for. The end result is the important thing – freedom still rings.
I’ve said all that to introduce what I’ve been trying to work into a post since I received it almost two and a half weeks ago. The writer is not a Marine (although I think he would have made a good one), and if he had tried to have this conversation with me while we were serving I would have dismissed it and him as irrelevant, since he wasn’t a Marine. A Navy veteran and friend of mine, Gawfer, popped the following piece to me during The O Word on July 11, 2008. I was going to write a post around it, and I have tried (and failed) to expound and expand on the basic idea in this bit of writing, and have gotten nowhere. The original words are the most powerful, and anything I could do to explain it would be an utter failure:
Whether the founders followed the Christian faith or not, they understood that Biblical values formed the basis of the not only the republic but English Law, and that the republic would be destroyed if the people’s knowledge of those values should ever be lost.
This brings me to the head of the spear, so to speak. Understanding that our constitution is man’s interpretation of God’s divine law, one must assume that at times the constitution will fall short of providing adequate solutions to humanistic transgressions. When this occurs, such as the recent ruling against capital punishment extending beyond murder, and the California Supreme Court’s ruling to overturn the vote of the people regarding gay marriage, the solution is not to interject one’s opinion or to seek a populous consensus as was done in both cases, but to go to the source of our constitution; divine law.
Because secularism has pervaded our society and our nation has become mostly agnostic, our appointed judges are ruling based on a popular opinion rather than using fundamental principles of interpretation. It is very clear that in both cases, the decisions would have been exactly opposite had they adhered to the basic truths and applied biblical principles to each case. Thankfully, we are still ‘One Nation, Under God’; but that is slowly slipping away.
So, there you have it. Time and age have taken the age off of the animosity between branches of service, but at the same time it has forged a stronger bond between like-minded people. As I mentioned in a comment, when BZ urged me to keep on keeping on, if we don’t all “keep on” there won’t be anything worth keeping.
I just re-read this entry, before posting it. I realize it’s a bit of a mind-bender, and it doesn’t really flow as cleanly as it should, but I’m going to leave it up. After all, it is Monday, and this is the result of several themes that have been roiling around in my head all weekend. Have fun keening the depths of my mind.
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As I am wont to ask time and again: where DID our Constitution go? And when can we get it back?
BZ
Well, wherever it is, when it DOES show up again, it won’t show any wear marks from, you know, being USED or anything…
Hmm, now you know I’m a really big fan of the Marines, but my big brother was a squid (he gave me permission to use that term) and there’s no one bigger to me than my brother.
With that said, each service has it’s place in the protection of freedom. But Marines are the ones who know from the day they sign up that if called, they will be the first to kill or to die. In general they are a particularly tough breed of human and it takes strong Marine leaders (commissioned and NCO’s) to make Marines a cohesive group of Warriors.
I would say they could get out of hand if there wasn’t such strong discipline. The caveat is that it takes that particular breed of human to be able to embrace the idea that they will be the first to die and then run to the fight with all their might. A difficult task even for the toughest Warrior of any service.
The Marines are the only service that integrates the aspects of all the other services, but they are an all purpose force designed for short, extreme engagements. Hence the extreme personalities (that I love so much) found within the Corps.
The tasks for the other services are different but they are just as risky and honorable. How about being a boomer and finding yourself tasked with launching an attack that you know will annihilate massive amounts of humanity. How strong and courageous that Sailor must be!
Well Cary, I agree, each service has something special to offer freedom. Sorry I’m so long winded.
Don’t be sorry, Samantha.
In the end, it’s the fact that a person served that is important, not which branch.
“In the end, it’s the fact that a person served that is important, not which branch.”
Right, and besides, We squids are glad to have the Marines in our branch 🙂
…and we were always glad to have those nice boats at our disposal…
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Good post there Marine. I am a retired Chief Petty Officer and love your blog. I too remember when we stayed away from the Jar Heads!! Later they had F-18 squadrons come onboard the Coral Sea with us and we got along great. Thank you for your service to this great country..
Ralph
Thank you, Rgroland. If you are retired, and you had F-18s, I’m guessing I was in during your stint (80-84 for me) so we were probably avoiding each other at the time… 🙂
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